The riding position is a popular position in bed – the woman has a little more to do than the man, but gets her money’s worth!

In this position the woman sits on top and rides her partner – it is also known as cowgirl position. For some the fulfillment par excellence and absolute classic in bed, for others still new territory.

What makes the riding position so appealing and with which tips and tricks you and your partner are guaranteed to reach orgasm, you can read here.

 

Ride sex position: This is how the popular position works!

The riding position is a classic among the sex positions and quickly explained: She sits on top, he lies below. There are some variations that make this position even more exciting and intensify the feeling during sex even more.

The woman can nestle her knees to the side of his torso. This position has the advantage that she can influence at what angle the penis penetrates her.

If the woman bends forward, he slides “ergonomically” into her. In addition, this way she can support herself well with one hand on his chest or next to his upper body, and with the other hand she can satisfy herself well.

Variations of the riding position: These techniques and movements exist!

One possibility is that the woman sits up and pushes her pelvis a little back, so the penis position becomes more vertical and there is more pressure on his penis and her clitoris. This is a very intense feeling, but can also be experienced as very violent.

Another variation is possible, for example, when she pulls her knees up to her above him. So sitting properly in the squat on him, but the feet still left and right next to him.

This may take some getting used to at first. For him, however, an intense experience, because the penis angle is steep here and the position underlines a certain dominance of the woman. Some stand on it! In addition, he can grab her wonderfully under the buttocks in this variant and support her with his strength in her movements. The G-spot of the woman is stimulated so ideal – a pleasure for both partners! It gets even better when he or she stimulates the clitoris with a massage stick.

If the riding position becomes too strenuous, because it is mainly the woman’s action that is required, she can bend forward and lie on him and then stretch her legs backwards. This way, she can still let her pelvis circle on him a bit. Tip: Some women can have a great orgasm if they squeeze their knees together a bit.

But sometimes the penis slips out. There are worse things. If you want to change positions, you can start from the riding position to the roll. Either on the side or with enough momentum that it lands on top. And something completely different is possible.

Variation 4: The “Reverse Cowgirl”! A position for all butt lovers. The woman sits astride the man, but with her back facing him. The angle can also be changed variably here. He has a wonderful view of her buttocks, she can stimulate her erogenous zones, but also like to play on his testicles, which she can now reach well with her hands.

In the riding position woman gets her money’s worth

In the riding position, the woman sets the pace and the man can be curious how she will move. Sounds exciting. But some women are unsettled by it. Especially if they miss clear reactions of the partner, whether he also finds the whole thing good.

As is so often the case, some women then can’t relax because they pay more attention to whether he likes it. Instead of making sure that they themselves get their money’s worth. Enough of that!

If she moves in a way that is good for her, the man will also enjoy it. Because men react very strongly to visual stimuli. And the male part has in the riding position the chance to see her breasts bouncing and to touch her body everywhere, to accompany and support every up and down of her body with his hands and to see his penis sliding into her. She can set the rhythm that she likes and with which she comes to orgasm.

Whether the belly is now flat or not becomes a minor matter, at least for the man. In the riding position, both should be able to let go. If necessary, with the light off, if that contributes to relaxation. Just be selfish during sex. The man does not go out empty in any case, if he follows the desire of the partner.